For example, the person with Asperger’s syndrome may not look at the other person as much as would be expected in a conversation, and especially when answering a question. Rather than undertake a program to know when to look at someone and read facial expressions, I recommend explaining the avoidance of eye contact: for example, ‘I need to look away to help me concentrate on answering your question. I am not being rude, dishonest or disrespectful.’ When talking about a special interest that is likely to be perceived as boring, the person with Asperger’s syndrome may say, before starting the
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