Wherever it is hard to forgive, remember how much He has forgiven you. And He delights to do it! Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is simply releasing a debt from your hands (which are inadequate to judge) into God’s. It’s saying, “God, here’s what was stolen from me. You saw it. You know all about it, including all I don’t know. I lay down every self-righteous weapon I possess and ask You to return to my heart what was stolen, however and wherever You see fit. It isn’t my debt anymore. My God will supply all of my needs. I release their heart to You.”