I’m still not letting it go. “Okay, but level with me, lad to lad, is it actually out of your hands, or is it one of those things where you could get it sorted but it’ll be a lot of aggro at your end?” “It’ll be a lot of aggro at my end,” he admits, “and I don’t want a lot of aggro at my end.” I’m pretty sure I’ve got him. Apart from the Jonathan Forests of the world, most people won’t just tell you to your face that they’re making your life harder to make their life easier.