If you see what you want, why not take a risk? But if you see it is not what you want, you know you are going to pay for it. Don’t go around crying, “My lover abuses me,” when it was so clear for you to see. Don’t lie to yourself. Don’t invent in people what is not there. This is the message. If you know what you want, you will find it is just like your relationship with your dog, but better.
