Recreational Activities Included in Timefor Undivided Attention In the last chapter, I encouraged you to spend a minimum of fifteen hours a week giving each other undivided attention. The context of that recommendation was intimate conversation, so you may have been left with the impression that you should talk intimately to each other for fifteen hours each week. But talking isn’t the only way to provide undivided attention. In fact the intimacy that results from undivided attention is usually achieved when a combination of four emotional needs are met—the top two emotional needs
