You Are Not So Smart: Why You Have Too Many Friends on Facebook, Why Your Memory Is Mostly Fiction, and 46 Other Ways You're Deluding Yourself
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Cognitive biases are predicable patterns of thought and behavior that lead you to draw incorrect conclusions.
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Heuristics are mental shortcuts you use to solve common problems.
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Logical fallacies are like math problems involving language, in which you skip a step or get turned around without realizing it.
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When a stimulus in the past affects the way you behave and think or the way you perceive another stimulus later on, it is called priming.
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Jonah Lehrer wrote extensively about this division in his book How We Decide.
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Just remember, you are most open to suggestion when your mental cruise control is on or when you find yourself in unfamiliar circumstances.
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But the big picture is a lie, nurtured by your constant and unconscious confabulation, adding up to a story of who you are, what you have done, and why.
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what people think they want is news, but what they really crave is olds . . . Not news but olds, telling people that what they think they already know is true.
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fear of embarrassment plays into group dynamics.
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Knowing that, you should always be the first person to break away from the pack and offer help—or attempt escape—because you can be certain no one else will.
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Feeling inadequate or incompetent is paralyzing—you have to plow through those emotions to get out of bed.
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Compare and contrast and eat some humble pie.
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1986 book, Littlewood’s Miscellany.
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when you say the chances of something happening are one in a million, it also means about once a month.
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So the next time you get ready to launch into one hundred reasons why your cell phone or TV or car is better than someone else’s, hesitate.
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Ad hominem is Latin for “to the person,” which is where you sometimes take the argument when things get out of hand.
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dismissing the other person’s argument by attacking the person instead of the claim.
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When everyone is happy and all egos are free from harm it tends to increase productivity.
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You know instinctively that dissent leads to chaos, so you avoid it.
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If your group includes a person who can hire or fire, groupthink comes into play.
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It turns out, for any plan to work, every team needs at least one asshole who doesn’t give a shit if he or she gets fired or exiled or excommunicated.
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Research says the situation can be avoided if the boss is not allowed to express his or her expectations,
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Finally, assign one person the role of asshole and charge that person with the responsibility of finding fault in the plan.
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The mouse has a primitive brain, so it can’t base its choices on reason, on a careful analysis of economic benefits versus systemic losses.
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It feels its way through life with the rodent equivalent of intuition.
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When you are doing well, you think you are to blame. When you are doing badly, you think the world is to blame.
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Be aware: Your desire to conform is strong and unconscious.
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Maximilien Ringelmann, who discovered in 1913 that if he had people get together in groups to pull on a strain gauge, their combined efforts would tally up to be less than the sum of their individual strength measurements on the same instrument.
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Seligman, he grafted cancer cells into rats so they would develop fatal tumors.
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You must fight back your behavior and learn to fail with pride.
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Failing often is the only way to ever get the things you want out of life.
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2010 study conducted by Josh Ackerman, Christopher C. Nocera,
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résumés as being more impressive if those résumés were attached to heavy clipboards.
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1970s Richard Haines at NASA was testing heads-up displays on commercial airliners.
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THE TRUTH: You often create conditions for failure ahead of time to protect your ego.
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when you receive new information that threatens your self-image, you react quickly to reaffirm your identity.
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most people engage in magical thinking to some degree, assuming their thoughts can influence things outside of their control.
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Power breeds certainty, and certainty has no clout against the unpredictable, whether you are playing poker or running a country.