The Why Cafe

by John P. Strelecky

I realized that in my life, the incoming waves are made up of all the people, activities, and things that are trying to capture my attention, energy, and time but are not associated with my PFE. The outgoing waves are the people, activities, and things that can help me fulfill my PFE. Therefore, the more time and energy I waste on the incoming waves, the less time and energy I have for the outgoing ones.

Why is it that we spend so much of our time preparing for when we can do what we want, instead of just doing what we want right now?”

Why not now?

‘Despite what we may be taught to believe, or what we hear in advertising, or feel when we are stressed out at work, we each control every moment of our lives.

Control

Don’t ever let things or people drive you to the point where you feel you no longer have control over your own destiny. Be active in choosing your path, or it will be chosen for you. Just move the golf ball.’”