Watching the English: The Hidden Rules of English Behaviour

by Kate Fox

making remarks such as ‘Well, it’s not bad, considering’ or ‘You could do a lot worse,’ when trying to convince someone that our loft conversions or legal acumen or whatever are really the best that money can buy. Then we have a tendency to say ‘Well, I expect we’ll manage somehow,’ when we mean ‘Yes, certainly, no trouble’ and ‘That would be quite helpful,’ when we mean ‘For Christ’s sake, that should have been done yesterday!’; and ‘We seem to have a bit of a problem,’ when there has been a complete and utter disaster.

‘A bit of a nuisance’ (meaning disastrous, traumatic, horrible); ‘Not very friendly’ (meaning abominably cruel);