Take this opportunity to discover what you really want. What do you want, anyway? When the circumstances of our lives box us in, we usually assume that we know what we want but simply cannot get it. “If only I could . . .” The refrain is familiar. In times of transition, however, a distressing change often takes place: The limiting circumstances are part of what ends, and we are no longer held back from doing what we want to do. But now the refrain changes: “If only I knew what I really wanted
