“Olan is not perfect. He has a past, but everything you’ve told me says he’s doing the work to be better. He is better. Clearly. You talk about ‘the drinking’ but Marvin, is he drinking? Now? No. Your mother isn’t perfect. But Marvin, she was a single parent. And not of her own choosing. I’m not making excuses but try putting yourself in her shoes. She hasn’t had a drink in twelve years. I know she hurt you, but can you maybe entertain she’s trying to make amends? Your childhood wasn’t perfect, but buddy, show me someone’s whose was. Now get ready for the big one. Newsflash: You are not
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