many decades, is that communication is so important and so essential to both people in the relationship, they will talk things out and work things out before they got to bed. Couples who let things stew, or when you’re with somebody who refuses to communicate or they threaten you with the end of the relationship, in the long run, those relationships will never work out. If you spot that kind of a pattern with the person you’re with, it’s best to walk away and find somebody else, because they’re not mature enough to communicate. It’s not your job to fix them if they refuse to participate.
