The bottom line was that I was so easy and so available, that she saw me as weak and thought she could basically have her way with me. She would invite me to come out, and I would meet her. I didn’t take control. I had no center. Eventually she saw that and then she just blew me off. A guy who is good looking can get away on his looks for the first few dates. If he’s not centered, weak, and always does what she wants, her attraction will lower to the point where she doesn’t want to see him anymore.
