Gentlemen, what you have just told this lady is that you are negative. You are not necessarily a fun person to be around. You are bitter, and she needs to keep her guard up around you so she doesn’t end up as the next focus for your negativity. You are needy and not in your center. How can a woman feel comfortable and relaxed under such an onslaught? This is the kind of crap they show in movies and TV all the time: men acting like women attracts women.
