How To Be A 3% Man, Winning The Heart Of The Woman Of Your Dreams

by Corey Wayne

A true Alpha Male, a man who goes for what he wants and has positive expectations that he will achieve his goals, will choose his purpose and his passion over a woman if faced with the choice. Masculine energy, after all, is about purpose, drive, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers, achieving goals, etc.

“The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it.” ~ Michael Yon. What is the quickest way to gain someone’s attention? Remove yours.

So if she says, “how many other women are you dating?” say, “I don’t kiss and tell, but none of those girls are as awesome as you are, honey,” with a James Bond smirk on your face. That’s all. Keep it simple, charming, playful and little vague. Let her fill in the blanks in her mind.

Women will chase you if you give them the space to miss you by not chasing them. Your inaction will cause them to take some action to get confirmation that you care and desire them.

The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the quality of the people you consistently spend your time with.

If you are with your lady, you should either be holding her hand or walking side by side with her as a true equal. The bottom line is that the one in charge of the relationship, the one that’s in control, is the one that is always in front.

Women are about opening up and receiving your love and presence. That is the feminine energy. The masculine energy is all about purpose, drive, direction, and mission in life. The masculine energy is also about breaking through barriers.

Before you can start getting into declarations of love, you need to make a woman feel comfortable. She has to feel safe. You need to make her feel that she can be totally in her feminine and relax, without having to keep her guard up against your next move. The best way to do this is with laughter.

You should be friendly to EVERYONE everywhere you go. Treat all women the same. Why? Because repetition is the mother of skill. "Excellence is not a singular act but a habit. You are what you do repeatedly." ~ Aristotle.

Your job as a man is to recognize when your woman shuts down to you, so you can open her back up to you through communication. Ask her what's wrong. Tell her she seems a little distant, and that you want to know what's in her heart. Say things like… “Tell me more. Don't leave anything out. I want to understand where you are coming from. What else?” etc. You will know when you’ve gotten to the root cause of the issue and have resolved it to her satisfaction.

Women are like cats. They come and go as they please… and… YOU MUST LET THEM!!! If you don’t, you will destroy their level of safety and comfort with you. They do what they want, when they want, and with whom they want. You can call a cat, but it will only come to you if it feels like it. Many times they will give you that bored, sleepy stare that says: Who do you think you’re kidding? Cats look around a crowded room of strangers and will go only to the one they feel comfortable being with, the one they know for certain will give them the affection they want.

Face it, gentlemen, you have to be the type of person you want to attract. If you do not have those traits that you want, you have to become those certain traits, because like attracts like. It is a Universal principle. You may have been able to meet someone who has the qualities that you ideally want, but if you don’t exhibit those qualities yourself, you are going to turn that person off quickly.

Courtship is ongoing and it is never going to end. Always build anticipation. Avoid falling into routines. Don’t go out every Friday night and take your wife to dinner. Try going out one week on a Wednesday night to do something different. Skip a week and take her out twice the following week. Always keep her wondering. Add spontaneity. Leave her curious as to when the next surprise is going to come. Never tell women what you’re going to do. Let them discover it in real time.

No matter what the relationship, the foremost thing that needs to be in your mind is that you enter into a relationship to give. You give because that is who you are, and you expect nothing in return. However, you need to always watch what you do get in return, and decide if it is acceptable to you.

Most of the time when a woman talks to you, she is not looking for your advice, she just wants you to listen. But when she comes out and says: This, this, and this happened… what do you think I should do? That is her way of asking for advice. If you are unsure, you should say, do you want my advice or do you just want me to listen?

I don’t have a problem with mentioning good things. But to discuss intimate details is not something a gentleman would do. Besides, the past is the past. It is between me and the woman in question. A gentleman doesn’t go around telling intimate details of a relationship. A woman you have just met should accept and understand this. The chances are high that it will also make her feel more comfortable, because she can rest assured that you will treat any information she shares with you in the same manner.

Don’t go into a relationship, any kind of relationship, with the thought of what you can get out of it. You should go into a relationship to give.

Remember: If she likes you, she will help you. Pay attention, and don’t get sloppy.

Remember: The couple that plays together stays together. Think of it as though you are two children, always wanting to have fun. That is the approach you need to take with your relationships to keep the magic alive long-term.

Women who tend to be insecure will do things like this. They’re not comfortable enough going it alone, so what they do is, they start calling the male orbiters, or the guys that are kind of hanging out in the background that always want to date them, and they start lining them up once they think things are going sideways. Women who have their shit together emotionally will end the relationship, take some time to be alone and heal, and then they’ll start dating again. That’s why it’s so important to watch what a woman does, so you can tell whether or not you’ve got a woman with a healthy self-esteem or a woman who’s going to call other guys as soon as you start doing something wrong.