You are trying to engage her and, at the same time, gauge her attraction level for you. The goal is to find out if this woman is really someone you even want to go out with. If you joke around with her, or you tease her and she’s nasty to you – who cares? You are probably never going to see this woman again anyway, so what does it matter? If she doesn’t respond to your jokes, or doesn’t think you are funny, you don’t want to spend your time with her. You should always come from the place and assume that all women want you.
