If two people truly love each other and want to be happy with their choice to go their separate ways, I do not think it is the loving thing to do to cut one another off from all communication. I actually think that makes it harder to heal. The hard part about a relationship ending is the finality of it all. Going from being each other’s best friend and lover to no longer speaking is not being loving in my opinion. It just seeks to hurt the other person. Many people feel that trying to hurt the other person will make them feel better.