To a woman, when a guy is engaging his emotions at the beginning of the relationship, without taking the time to get to know who she is first, he seems needy. Because of the way women deal with emotions and love, they can’t quite comprehend the man’s instantaneous emotional response. It makes her leery and uncomfortable. She doesn’t feel safe with him, because he is not in his masculine. Guys who are needy tend to act like creepy stalkers. All women have met guys like this in the past, and most know how to spot the control freaks, stalkers and needy guys.