You need to raise her comfort level, and at the same time, find out everything there is to know about her. You have to show her that you want to know everything about her. Listen to what she says. You will be tested. She wants to know that you are listening to her. This is an important point with women, whether you first meet her, you are on a date, or you are in a long-term relationship. Women tend to remember every detail, while these same details tend to escape men.
