I am reading Brideshead Revisited, and I’m struck that a hundred years ago Waugh wrote, “With Sebastian it is different.” Julia is speaking about her brother. “He will become a drunkard if someone does not come to stop him . . . It is in the blood . . . I see it in the way Sebastian drinks.” Brideshead: “You can’t stop people if they want to get drunk. My mother couldn’t stop my father.” Substitute a few words and they are discussing my son: “With Nic it is different. He will become an addict if someone does not come to stop him . . . It is in the blood . . . I see it in the way he uses.” “You
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