Thus began a friendship deep and true, uncomplicated by romantic love. Neither a fawning devotee nor a scheming opportunist, Carl remained, during the last years of Joan’s life, one of the few she could count on for help, companionship and even advice. As usual for Joan in her friendships with gaymen, she rejoiced that Carl was living happily with a man, and he frequently returned home with a present she had given him. Later, he recalled this as “one of the most rewarding friendships” of his life. That spring
