feel rather than focusing on how you feel. I asked about your first days back and all you’ve spoken about is whether you’re reacting in a way that your colleagues will find appropriate, or easy to process. It’s not your job to make your colleagues feel comfortable all of the time. That in itself is a burden too heavy to carry when grieving. I imagine your instinct to put others first, even if detrimental to yourself, also plays a part in your personal life.” She fixes her gaze on me. “But I believe I asked you how you felt about the name Maame.”
