I had seen Don Norman around the rooms of recovery for years and loved the way he “walked the walk.” He was not one of those people who could only talk a good game. So when I had three years clean and sober, I asked him if he would work with me and help me. His answer was immediate and finite. “Oh, no, no, no, honey. I can’t work with you. Too much drama, honey. You’re always wrapped up in the drama.” I can honestly say I had not one idea what he was talking about.