It’s important to identify what we need so that we can adequately assess who we should, or should not, open our hearts to. It’s important that we don’t judge ourselves or make ourselves wrong for having the needs that we have. Until you can take full responsibility for what you want and need in a relationship, you may waste a lot of your time with people who either don’t have what you want or, for whatever reason, simply aren’t interested in giving it to you.

