The way to move forward through any bardo, big or small, is to set your sights on a dream or goal while maintaining that “don’t know” mind. This will help keep your life in motion and help you put down roots when you are floundering. Even “not doing” is a form of doing and has its own ineluctable results. So you can set a life goal and begin to move toward it but still remain open to the possibility that something entirely different may unfold.
