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Johanne
Nov 24, 2019 rated it really liked it
This is a dark and depressing story, 3 generations of Palestinian women passing on shame and self-loathing for being a woman in such a patriarchal and misogynistic culture. But it’s well written and certainly worth your time to hear the voices of women who are usually voiceless.
Carol
Jan 17, 2020 rated it it was amazing
Not an easy book but I became attached to the characters, the women that is. They angered me, they worried me, I felt compassion for them and I wanted their circumstances to improve. After generations of misogyny, patriarchy and a culture of abuse, the cycle is breaks. Well written.
Kay Green
Jul 11, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Fast read. it is the story of three generations of Palestinian women living in Brooklyn in current times. The society they live in is totally Paternalistic - with the men making every decision and the women living lives to cook, clean and have children. The women were only slightly educated and even though they chose to live in America they disdained the American freedoms that women and children take for granted.
Paints a very dismal picture for women roles in that culture - but even the men were
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Rongrong
May 16, 2020 rated it it was ok
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I think I liked the title better than the actual experience of reading the book. The author interview and essay at the end helped, but the stories were so dark, and the writing was not compelling enough to break the dreariness of the perspectives on a woman’s role, a woman’s work, a woman’s place, a woman’s choices. Maybe that was the point. Still, even though I almost stopped reading altogether several times, and was frustrated that the author kept pushing back the reveals of the various secret ...more
Alyssa
Dec 10, 2020 rated it it was amazing
Excellent debut novel by Etaf Rum. A heartbreaking, multi-layered story with depth of characters woven through multiple generations of Palestinian women. A realistic look at the challenges they face, especially when immigrating to a new country.
Sarah
Jun 07, 2019 rated it it was amazing
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