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Tanya
Dec 14, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Wow, I have been very lucky with memoirs lately. This is another celebrity story that has blessedly little to do with celebrity and fame. It's an unexpectedly raw story of a horrifically abusive father and a son's determination and grit to not only survive, but thrive. As if this wasn't enough, throw in a fascinating genealogical mystery that is solved when Alan participates in a show called 'Who Do You Think You Are'. I must admit I always enjoy the genealogy shows. I can't wait to find this ep ...more
Carolyn
Mar 20, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction, memoir
I actually listened to this on Audio through Library-to-go. It's a good book to listen to...very engaging and kept my attention. Some material is a bit shocking and language can be a little vulgar so be aware when listening with company around. I know Alan Cumming as the actor through his role in Spy Kids thanks to my son, and really little else, but I decided to listen anyway. I love a compelling memoir. Alan Cumming's story was incredibly moving, and focuses on his relationship with his abusiv ...more
Sarah
Mar 13, 2016 rated it liked it
Shelves: nonfiction, audio
It's difficult to review this book because it feels, a little, like passing judgment on Cumming's life, his pain, and his healing. I can appreciate the catharsis that writing this book and telling this story must have been for Cumming, and I can also understand that hearing this story from a successful man may help or give hope to others with similar childhood circumstances. But it feels a bit like airing dirty laundry. There's a lot of bitterness here, which of course is understandable, but sti ...more
Andy Plonka
Mar 11, 2019 rated it really liked it
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I liked this one more than I thought I would. As a celebrity Comming seems a bit (okay more than a bit, but not completely narcissistic as I expected. The fact that he can even function somewhat normally after his childhood is admirable.
Saima
Oct 12, 2014 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: library-book, 2014
A genealogy mystery that also involves self discovery. Very well written.

"Memory is so subjective. We all remember in a visceral, emotional way, and so even if we agree on the facts - what was said, what happened where and when - what we take away and store from a moment, what we feel about it, can vary radically."

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Jen
Dec 18, 2015 rated it it was amazing
I listened to this book and hearing Alan Cumming in his own words was really beautiful. I wasn't dying to read it because while I like him I can't say I chase after everything he's in but this is a great story, regardless of who it is about. ...more
Julie
Jun 07, 2014 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
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May 19, 2019 rated it liked it
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Nov 01, 2018 rated it it was amazing
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Colleen Chi-Girl
Jun 01, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: england, lgbtqia
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