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The Lover
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March 1, 2017
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May 31, 2017

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Rosemary
Jan 05, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Poetic and very unsettling, this novel switches from first to third person while always being from the point of view of a poor ethnically French girl/woman who, before the age of 16, becomes the lover of a rich ethnically Chinese man, both living in Vietnam. The closest parallel I can think of is Lolita. The stories are very different but neither book is the scandalous erotica that one might expect from their reputations. This one focuses as much on the heroine's dysfunctional family as on the a ...more
Sam
I think part of why I didn't enjoy this novel was because my expectations going in were not even close to the reality. I tend to like to go into books mostly blind, which is great most of the time, but not so much when you're expecting a tender love story between people from two different worlds, and instead you get a 15-year-old taking on a 27-year-old lover mostly for his money.

The prose is beautiful, there's no denying that Duras was a talented author. I did enjoy the descriptions of her fam
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Maia
Jan 17, 2016 rated it really liked it
worth reading, intense. Read in french, might have missed bits. The missing-chunks-out style is maddening at first and she spends one quarter getting onto the topic, but stick with it, it works in the end
Lyn LeJeune
Aug 07, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Beautifully written short novel about and unlikely love affair.
Kate S
Feb 25, 2014 rated it it was ok
These ramblings did not do it for me. I'm sure it was me, not you... ...more
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Jan 07, 2011 rated it it was amazing
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Anastasia
Feb 26, 2011 rated it it was ok
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Sep 06, 2011 marked it as to-read
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Aug 27, 2013 marked it as bibliotēkā
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Jan 14, 2014 rated it really liked it
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Mar 16, 2014 rated it really liked it
Ariel
May 02, 2014 marked it as next-next  ·  review of another edition
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