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Annette
UNBECOMING by Jenny Downham is a compelling work of realistic fiction focusing on family secrets and three generations of women.

When Katie’s estranged grandmother suddenly moves into her home, the whole family must adjust to not only grandma’s dementia but also to long hidden family secrets. Multiple crises converge as Katie adjusts to a realization about her own sexuality, tries to understand her mother’s bizarre behavior, and wrestles with her younger brother’s special needs.

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Emily
Jan 02, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Touching, sad, and more nuanced than i anticipated.
Vicki
Aug 19, 2017 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Three generations of women; a family saga sharing the back story as we currently read about the three as still a work in progress. Many secrets slowly revealed. Compassion builds as you see each persons many sides.
"You can't unknow things. You can't shove information to the back of your mind and not have it hurt you." A British author, also wrote the notable, "Before I Die"
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Jen
Interesting, and probably a situation that is more common than we think. Teens get older and realize their family has secrets that impact the family relationships that were hidden from them as kids.
Carrie
Apr 16, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Downham is able to explore the intricacies of female family relationships and different forms of accountability. It's definitely a slower read meant to be lingered over. I enjoyed it, but some of the issues of parental guilt, Alzheimer's, and adult responsibility means this won't be for every teen. It would make a great choice for a mother-daughter bookclub. ...more
Jamie
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Shauna Yusko
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Maureen
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Katie
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Jamie
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