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The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self
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David J. Bookbinder
Jan 04, 2017 rated it it was amazing
I first encountered this book in the mid-80s, a year or two into my first serious psychotherapy, and it was as if all the lights suddenly went on in a previously dimly lit room. Although it's been a long time since I read The Drama of the Gifted Child, the shock of recognition - of the dynamics of my family, of my role in it, of the roles filled by my siblings, my mother, and especially by my father - became starkly revealed in a way no amount of discussion or dream analysis had approached. Ther ...more
Christine Marie
Dec 29, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Overall, it is well worth the read, even if one (like myself) does not entirely subscribe to the psychoanalytic perspective.

A few things I liked:

(1) I really appreciated her mapping out the lengths one may take to repress knowledge and unknowingly contribute to intergenerational trauma. Tying point A to point Z together was achieved in a very easy-to-follow way without elitist terminology or jargon that could cloud understanding. It is that mapping that continuously draws me back to psychoanal
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Crystal Reed
Feb 25, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
About 20 years ago I read this book, thinking it would be about a very smart, and very precocious, student of mine. What I realized was that it was about me. I cried most of the way through it, and I'm better off for having read it. ...more
Patti
Sep 19, 2011 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Kate
Jan 02, 2012 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Apuca
Jun 02, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Patty315
Jul 31, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Apuca
May 12, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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