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I first encountered this book in the mid-80s, a year or two into my first serious psychotherapy, and it was as if all the lights suddenly went on in a previously dimly lit room. Although it's been a long time since I read The Drama of the Gifted Child, the shock of recognition - of the dynamics of my family, of my role in it, of the roles filled by my siblings, my mother, and especially by my father - became starkly revealed in a way no amount of discussion or dream analysis had approached. Ther
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Overall, it is well worth the read, even if one (like myself) does not entirely subscribe to the psychoanalytic perspective.
A few things I liked:
(1) I really appreciated her mapping out the lengths one may take to repress knowledge and unknowingly contribute to intergenerational trauma. Tying point A to point Z together was achieved in a very easy-to-follow way without elitist terminology or jargon that could cloud understanding. It is that mapping that continuously draws me back to psychoanal ...more
A few things I liked:
(1) I really appreciated her mapping out the lengths one may take to repress knowledge and unknowingly contribute to intergenerational trauma. Tying point A to point Z together was achieved in a very easy-to-follow way without elitist terminology or jargon that could cloud understanding. It is that mapping that continuously draws me back to psychoanal ...more

About 20 years ago I read this book, thinking it would be about a very smart, and very precocious, student of mine. What I realized was that it was about me. I cried most of the way through it, and I'm better off for having read it.
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