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How to Love

Katie Cotugno

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May 09, 2013 Amanda rated it it was amazing

Shelves: books-with-couples-i-love, i-adore-extremely-flawed-characters, arcs, nonlinear-narrative

That made my heart hurt, but in a good way! So beautifully written and the way it approaches all the topics (religious background, first love, teen pregnancy, wanting to leave home) could have easily gone into a typical place, yet it all felt fresh and real.

The 'Before' and 'After' chapters back to back were so wonderfully done, easily weaving into each other, supporting the adjacent chapter with back story or context for what comes next. I am a sucker for non-linear narrative, and while this do ...more

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Dec 09, 2013 Emma rated it it was ok

Before everything went to hell, Reena Montero had loved Sawyer LeGrande for as long as she could remember. Watching Sawyer and wanting him from afar in their small Florida town came as natural as breathing. Sawyer always seemed so distant, so unattainable until one day he suddenly isn't. After circling each other for years, Reena and Sawyer are finally together for a torrid, messy moment before it all falls apart. Sawyer blows out of town without a word and Reena is left behind. Pregnant.

Almost Before everything went to hell, Reena Montero had loved Sawyer LeGrande for as long as she could remember. Watching Sawyer and wanting him from afar in their small Florida town came as natural as breathing. Sawyer always seemed so distant, so unattainable until one day he suddenly isn't. After circling each other for years, Reena and Sawyer are finally together for a torrid, messy moment before it all falls apart. Sawyer blows out of town without a word and Reena is left behind. Pregnant.

Almost three years later and Reena has finally made sense of what a life without Sawyer should look like. Her dreams of college are long behind her but most days her daughter Hannah more than makes up for that. Then, quick as he left, Sawyer is back and supposedly a changed man. Reena has her doubts. As these two circle once again all of the ugly parts of their past are brought to light but in the midst of all the painful memories there are some beautiful ones too.

It's taken Reena years to get over Sawyer LeGrande and make a new life for herself. With so many other changes is it possible to leave all of that past behind for a new future with Sawyer in it in How to Love by Katie Cotugno?

How to Love is Cotugno's first novel. Chapters alternate between Reena's "before" as she and Sawyer first get together (told in past tense) and her "after" with Sawyer coming back into town and finding Reena and daughter Hannah. Although the book ostensibly contains two stories (one YA and one more Emerging Adult since Reena is a mother now) Cotugno expertly blends the two plots together to create one larger narrative that spans years.

This book is extremely well-written. Cotugno is a prize-winning writer and her skill here shines through every page. Reena is a dimensional, realistic narrator. Even with her flaws and extremely poor decisions, Reena is mostly a heroine readers will want to like and want to succeed. Cotugno's descriptions of Reena's Florida landscape are evocative and vibrant.

Outside of the lovely writing, How to Love is a book riddled with barely developed secondary characters, a poorly paced plot and a tragically unsympathetic love interest.

Cotugno does a good job conveying the difficulties and stigma Reena faces as a teen mother and also shows the complexities of Reena's family life. However, many aspects of Reena's story are presented in a one-sided way. It is never quite explained how this responsible girl winds up pregnant except for her to say that she had thought she and Sawyer were "careful." The possibility of abortion is explained away with Reena's religious family but the idea of adoption is never once discussed even in passing.

There is also a strange correlation throughout the story between Reena standing up for herself only to have to face dire consequences (in one instance her father, who has a bad heart, has a heart attack after Reena yells at him). By the end of the story, Reena gains a bit of agency and is able to move past her role as a teen mother to try and make a better life for herself and her daughter. The problem is that all of this agency comes from finding out that Sawyer came looking for Reena before he left town years ago. Reena's relationship with her best friend is also handled strangely. Allie shifts from an obstacle, coming between Sawyer and Reena's flirty budding relationship, to a plot device as she becomes part of an inciting incident that brings Reena and Sawyer together.

A lot of how you feel about this book will depend on how you feel about Reena and Sawyer and their supposed epic love that looks a lot like standard lust. Basically Sawyer is a train wreck. He brings out the absolute worst in Reena at every turn before the pregnancy and leaves an impressive wreckage of mistakes in his wake. He is a user in every sense of the word and even Reena knows at the peak of her infatuation that it is only a matter of time before Sawyer implodes.

How to Love is marketed as a story of one couple falling in love twice. The problem is that Sawyer getting even a first chance with Reena makes no sense much less him getting a second one. The fact that Reena is continuously drawn to Sawyer after seeing him at his worst again and again exhibits the worst kind of self-destructive behavior.

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Dec 01, 2013 Laura rated it it was ok

Shelves: mt-bookpile-2011-2015, old-reads

16 and pregnant, and the father's gone? Plus a devoutly Catholic father? The life that Reena imagined has just crumbled around her. Two years later she's in a local college, living at home and dating her BFF's brother when Sawyer returns. Of course he wants in on Reena's life, just as he did before. Can she trust him? Has he changed? And could he be a good father to Hannah? Few surprises, sadly, but the romance may keep teens reading.

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Jul 10, 2013 Liz rated it liked it

Shelves: contemporary-and-realistic, 3-star, young-adult

I love a good contemporary, and when I heard the premise of How to Love, I thought it sounded fantastic. I heard great things about it from other bloggers and was lucky enough to score a digital galley. How to Love took me very little time, because I found the story engrossing, but I ultimately didn’t care for the romantic plotline.

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