This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage in Book Riot's Read Harder Challenge

Mar 16, 2016 Lacey Louwagie rated it really liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: 2016-read-harder-challenge, non-fiction, memoir, essays, marriage, mp3-audiobook

Read Harder Reading Challenge Item: A Book of Essays

I have never read any of Ann Patchett's novels, nor her memoir, and I don't know whether I ever will. I knew virtually nothing about her, but I read in a review that this book contained essays about writing and marriage, and I was like, "OK, I'm in!"

Although this is the first of her work I've ever read, it's clear that she's one of those people who is a good writer because she is a close observer. I enjoyed seeing the world given meaning and sh Read Harder Reading Challenge Item: A Book of Essays

I have never read any of Ann Patchett's novels, nor her memoir, and I don't know whether I ever will. I knew virtually nothing about her, but I read in a review that this book contained essays about writing and marriage, and I was like, "OK, I'm in!"

Although this is the first of her work I've ever read, it's clear that she's one of those people who is a good writer because she is a close observer. I enjoyed seeing the world given meaning and shape through her description and exploration of it, and although the essays were collected from various publications throughout her career, they were arranged roughly in chronological order. So in the end I felt as though I knew something about the shape her life, even if there was not a central narrative arc to the entire collection.

I probably enjoyed this book so much because there are a lot of things that make me see the world similarly to how Patchett sees it -- we are both writers, both raised Catholic, both introverts, both in happy marriages despite a resistance to marriage. Like any anthology, some of these essays were more successful in holding my interest than others. My favorite was probably the one about her travels with her somewhat-ex boyfriend in an RV for a story she was doing -- she went into it expecting to hate the RV lifestyle and came out of it a convert. It didn't hurt that the heart of this essay took place in South Dakota, where I could so well picture both the people and the place she was describing.

Patchett's writing manages to strike an almost-perfect balance between beauty and practicality. I loved her advice about whether or not writers should get an MFA, mostly because it was so validating. And although I sometimes found myself inadvertently jealous of the "means" she often makes discreet reference to (not sure whether her money all came from her books, or whether she inherited it or came from "old money" or what), but at least she acknowledges her place of privilege. And does good things with it, like open bookstores.

Although I don't feel fired up to hunt down everything Patchett has ever written the way I often do after finishing a non-fiction piece, I'd be willing to pick her up again if the opportunity presents itself. ...more

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Mar 27, 2014 Abby Johnson rated it really liked it

Shelves: audio, grownup_books

This collection of essays is culled from Ann Patchett's work that's been previously published in magazines, etc. It's a nice look into the writer's life and I would particularly recommend it for fans of Patchett's novels. The essays cover many different subjects including her experience in her MFA program (and whether she'd recommend one for you), taking the qualifying exams (mental and physical) for the LAPD, Patchett's love affair with opera, and the story of her long path to a happy marriage. ...more

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May 09, 2021 Kaitlin rated it it was amazing

Shelves: non-fiction, favorites, essays, female-protagonist

Ann Patchett is always a good idea. This book was a complete joy. I loved the essays, loved their language, loved their brevity, loved how they can live separately but loved how together they showed a complete portrait. What a genius this author is, and I fell very hard for this book.

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Mar 30, 2015 Kristen rated it really liked it

Goodness Patchett is such a talented writer. Like so many people who read her books, I'm both impressed by her prowess but also find her such an approachable, likable person. I told someone the other day that reading her works is like curling up under a blanket, which might sound like her writing is fluffy but it's not. It's comforting and good for the soul. This collection of short stories is fantastic, plain and simple. ...more

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May 03, 2014 Mary rated it really liked it

A pleasant compilation of Patchett's essays. I love her writing. These essays are like sitting down with an old friend. ...more

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Jan 06, 2015 Linda Parker rated it it was amazing

I haven't read a book of non fiction short stories in awhile. The first few stories are about writing but the following stories cover a wide range of subjects after that. The writing is so lovely and the fact that the audio book is read by the author just makes it better. Some real nuggets of life wisdom and wonderful perspective in these stories. ...more

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