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Sarah
I wanted this to be better. Part of this is because self-help books are usually not my jam, so maybe I can't hold that against this book. Part of it also might be because Rubin is possibly overly-critical of herself, which can sound like she's very upset about #firstworldproblems, when maybe she's comparatively not actually that upset them; it's hard to tell without knowing her personally. There are some chapters of the book that I found were very useful - the one about contemplating death, for ...more
Kara
Jul 06, 2015 rated it really liked it
Motivating. I like the combination of happiness research with Gretchen Rubin's anecdotal experiences of attempting to improve her habits and life. I recommend the audio book, which is narrated by Rubin. I also recommend her podcast, Happier, which is co-hosted with her sister. ...more
Katie
Dec 29, 2016 rated it really liked it
Shelves: it-s-good-for-me
I was prepared to not like this book, to be perpetually annoyed with the author, to continually roll my eyes. But I was surprised. I appreciated the author's honesty in admitting to unflattering traits, poor responses to life's challenges, and the desire to want to be better and to be more. That takes guts and humility.

I also appreciated the practical approach and tips she used and shared in the book. Overall I found her experiment inspiring.

That said, I found the excerpts from her blog's comm
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Carla
Sep 11, 2012 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: not-own, portuguese, 2012
It seemed an interesting approach to happiness, taking a year to work in those things about yourself you want to change because it'll make you happy. I liked the 12 Personal Commandments and specially the Secrets of Adulthood. I'm thinking of keeping some of the commandments and the secrets I can relate to, even thought of some secrets to add to those, and will try to follow some of the resolutions as well, maybe not on a daily basis.

Other than that, the book felt somewhat repetitive.
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Maria
Mar 30, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Listened to this on audio through the library but going to buy a copy in paperback to refer to. While I consider myself a happy person, there are many interesting ideas and "resolutions" Rubin mentions in her book that I found thought-provoking and worth doing to enhance my life AND how I treat others. I want to mark up my own copy with highlighters and post-it notes. ...more
Julianne Dunn
May 09, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Lisa
Jul 25, 2011 marked it as to-read
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Aug 26, 2012 rated it liked it
Holly
Jan 28, 2014 marked it as to-read
Rachel Harlich
Feb 06, 2014 rated it it was ok
Tiffany
May 30, 2014 rated it liked it
Allison Jones
Jun 30, 2014 rated it it was amazing
Ami
Sep 30, 2014 marked it as to-read
Shelves: oyster-books
Christian
Mar 10, 2015 marked it as to-read
Lia
Sep 05, 2016 rated it really liked it
Clare
Sep 10, 2016 marked it as to-read
Shelves: rec-mmm
Jen Hubbard
Oct 22, 2016 rated it it was ok
Elizabeth
May 10, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Chloe
Sep 18, 2017 rated it really liked it
Amy
Dec 27, 2017 rated it really liked it
Shelves: audio
Sarah
Nov 14, 2018 rated it liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
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Sep 10, 2025 rated it liked it
Sarah McKenna
Jan 16, 2023 marked it as to-read
taeli
Feb 11, 2024 rated it really liked it