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This Is How It Always Is
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Start date
September 28, 2021
Finish date
October 25, 2021

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Scott Williams
I think this is terribly overrated. It’s divided into four parts, and the first two I really didn’t like. There was just a bit too much of the author trying to be funny. The second two parts are much stronger but I still found myself being offended on behalf of the child in question because of the choices their parents make and the language they use.

The whole thing seems a bit self-congratulatory, as if it’s the cisgender parents being proud of how accepting they are. It seems to me, that the mo
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Christine Brown
Apr 21, 2021 rated it really liked it
Shelves: book-club1, 2021, lgbtq
I really enjoyed this book. I thought the issue of raising an LGBTQ child was handled delicately but sensitively (maybe too sensitively because everyone seemed supportive of Poppy's journey despite a few harsh words). Although the trip to Thailand seemed convenient, the Buddhist perspective on life added a very thoughtful element to the book. There isn't just boy-girl, yes-no-up-down . There is a middle way. It doesn't need to be either/or. It can be both. ...more
Doug
Jul 19, 2020 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Jen
Oct 02, 2023 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Michelle Roulston
Jan 06, 2020 marked it as to-read
Beth
Feb 27, 2019 marked it as to-read
Rosie Forsberg
May 11, 2021 marked it as to-read
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