Birdsong231☾ (pm before invs)’s Comments (group member since Apr 28, 2021)

Birdsong231☾ (pm before invs)’s comments from the |The Academy of Featherdown Moors RP| group.

But howww? I made someone doubt themselves. Again.

but m8, I really am a bad person who sucks at doing things that literally everyone else can do so easily. my only specialty is putting everyone in a bad mood.

Lilly & Zay (=0w0=) wrote: "Bɪʀᴅᵴᴏɴɢ²³¹, ᴛʜᴇ Fᴀʙᴜʟᴏᴜᵴ Pɪɢᴇᴏɴ Qᴜᴇᴇɴ wrote: "Lilly & Zay (=0w0=) wrote: "Bɪʀᴅᵴᴏɴɢ²³¹, ᴛʜᴇ Fᴀʙᴜʟᴏᴜᵴ Pɪɢᴇᴏɴ Qᴜᴇᴇɴ wrote: "No, no! You're a great moderator! It's just that my problem was the amount ..."

Can I get any advice on how to filter? ;u; Because I've been trying sooooo hard for the past 5 to 7 years and nothing ever works. (Doesn't help that I'm legally an adult now.)

They all say it's my autism, but I really doubt it. They all say that a lot of my problems are because of autism, but I hate that so much. I feel like I'm blaming every little thing about me on my anxiety, autism and depression. My inability to understand, my inability to do the simplest of tasks, my filter problem, my negativity, my bluntness, my fear, my distrust for others, my so-called 'high intelligence'. They even say my problem of making math 100x harder is another part of my autism.

At least I can confirm my memory is shot because of my meds without feeling like I'm blaming my problems on something else.

Lilly & Zay (=0w0=) wrote: "Bɪʀᴅᵴᴏɴɢ²³¹, ᴛʜᴇ Fᴀʙᴜʟᴏᴜᵴ Pɪɢᴇᴏɴ Qᴜᴇᴇɴ wrote: "No, no! You're a great moderator! It's just that my problem was the amount of inactivity while this group is fairly active. It needs a lot of attentio..."

I'm unable to censor myself quite yet... I've always had to face pain full on without any warnings. I used to be able to do things gently... Being cyber bullied for how I ran my groups forced me to change attitude by a lot. I'm really sorry... I've got no clue how to stop myself... Should I leave? Before I hurt anyone any further? I don't know what to do with myself.

Try not to take on so much of everyone else's stuff. You need to focus on yourself before anyone else. I only fully realized that very recently. Focusing on others before yourself is very dangerous for oneself.

No, no! You're a great moderator! It's just that my problem was the amount of inactivity while this group is fairly active. It needs a lot of attention and keeping up with. Negligence is dangerous for active groups.

A lot of the room requests need to be made

Pond, Science class, and music class have been added!

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Mostly used by the waterbirds, but it has been known to be a very calming place for when someone is upset.

I've calmed down by a lot, and again, I'm so sorry for sounding rude. I couldn't calm myself anymore. It was one of the things that I couldn't pack down like most of my other emotions that try to run rabid in my brain.

I plan to help out as much as I can! I hope to kill off some of the stress. :3

Aye. ;u;

Also ty! owo

Oooh, that'd be really good!
where would that go-
I'm not familiar with what goes where. xD

Wait, what- I thought that it would be discussed or something among all the moderators... I didn't really expect myself to be a candidate for anything. I only wanted to (very clearly) point out the activity and needs for this group, but I'll do my very best until the other three decide to keep me as an official moderator, or simply a temporary one.

Even if there was just a temporary one would be fine, until one of more of the official moderators start paying attention to the needs of this group. Preferably one who has quite a bit of experience, and knows how to handle these kinds of problems. Maturity and good leadership skills are key to running a group.
It makes me sad that most of the people I know that can do that aren't on the site anymore, or just not on the site in general.

Again, I do not mean to sound so rude, I just... I see a lot of potential in this group. If the right amount of effort was put into it, I believe that it could become something amazing.

Henry wrote: "i agree"

I am relieved to know that I am not the only one who sees just how badly this group is being run.

I'm not going to hold back anymore. I'm sick and tired of my complaint being ignored.

The level of irresponsibility of the four moderators of this group is unprofessional. People are being ignored in room request and character creation. Questions are being ignored. If any of these moderators actually intend to act like moderators, they should respond as soon as possible. Unapproved characters are being roleplayed BECAUSE of this irresponsibility. Requirements for creation are also being looked over. Might as well not have any requirements at all!

Honestly, the only reason I'm still in this group is for Ajax and Castor. If it wasn't for them, I would have left the group a long time ago.

And before anyone says ANYTHING, I've seen activity from the moderators in other groups. Do not give them the ability to have the excuse of being too busy. If they were, they would have mentioned it by now.

This message probably sounds like me being a b---h, and I can explain that by mentioning that I'm on my period at the moment. I may be on my depo shot, but that doesn't stop the symtoms of a menstrual cycle. It only tames it. My patience runs more thin than usual during this time, and making me wait in situations like this is a very poor idea.

((I'm not in charge of the list. But it's another duty that's being forgotten or ignored...))

((Huh... I guess it the post was deleted for thread clean up... They shouldn't do that. It throws everyone out of balance.))