Jo’s answer to “Hi Jo! I adore Among Others, and a lot of the thoughts Mori has about romantic/sexual relationships…” > Likes and Comments

I hear you, Jo. While unhesitatingly supportive of alternate orientations, I am fed up with creating more letters to define things that are plain commonsense. Not having a desire to have sex with someone unless we love and know them well, is having morals!

I would not label those who take sex casually as "easy" or "loose" and find it ridiculous to make labels for people who simply take sex seriously. I don't see it as a spectrum thing.