normalize being slightly older than your boyfriend? > Likes and Comments

so I’m two months older than my boyfriend of a year and people think it’s kinda weird. anyone else like this?

2 months is nothing unless you're in a diff grade then maybe
don't think it matters imo

Two months? That’s nothing, if you both don’t feel weird about it then it shouldn’t bother you.

As long as you are both happy I think It doesn’t matter :)

2 months? lightwork

We need to normalize women being older than someone they're dating.

yes amara you’re right!

it's really only an issue if you're a legal adult and he's not. if you guys are ok with it then it's all that matters

Girly we’re 14

My ex is younger than me. At the time i thought it was fine and it is fine. It just happens to be that most girls date older than them bc guys that are older just are more mature and fits their needs better. Not that a younger bf is bad, just statically wise that why and older bf is normalized. If that makes sense 😅

Edit: history also plays s factor with older guys and younger girls. I’m just here explaining why younger bf and older gfs are less common

i think its fine, billie eilish and her bf r seven years apart so 🤷‍♀️

girl 2 months is nothing, and YES we should totally normalize woman being the older one in a relationship

@Caroline

I didn't for a second think you were an adult but my statement stands either way. as long as neither one of you is an adult while the other is a minor it shouldn't matter if you're are happy. keeping your relationship private will help out so much drama and create less problems. stress free is the way to be

For me it's all about how mature the man is! 1 year younger is the limit for me though

my bf a year older than me so i’m biased BUT i will say it really just depends on the maturity levels for both of you. woman do mature faster than men, but then again it varies person to person so really it just depends!

Gf its 2 months u r fine <333333

And yessssss we need to normalize age differences- especially women older than men 💪🌷

Some of my close friends are dating and their in 7th and 8th grade sooo..

2 months is basically nothing

I’m not dating currently, but I’m older than most of the kids in my grade, so when I have dated I’ve been older lol. My dad is a year younger than my mom, too.

good chemistry doesn't check age.

folk mature at different rates.

jealous others need to mind their own business.

tbh those who think it's weird are just jealous of u guys. Don't worry about it, babe. Good luck, and my advice is to ignore them and live ur life.

As someone who’s three years older than their boyfriend, you’re good :)