The Tender Bar: A Memoir

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by J.R. Moehringer

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Does it dissatisfy you that the author's desperation for a male role model in his life has made him overlook his mother's personality and her commitment to his upbringing? He mentions it but I did not feel it did enough justice to her.
Valerie I think it reflects a natural state in a young man's life; most young men at one point or another take their mothers for granted. At best mothers are …moreI think it reflects a natural state in a young man's life; most young men at one point or another take their mothers for granted. At best mothers are to be tolerated (the annoying thing moms do that show their love) but when life throws a hardball or two knowing she's there in the background can mean surviving and in a strong relationship, thriving. I don't think there is any latent or evidential mysogyny present in this book; quite the opposite; his yearning for a meaningful relationship with a close male shows the void not present for a femaile counterpart. (less)
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I can't put this book down - so good - Does this author have any other books?
North Landesman Agree with Martin on the Agassi book. He also ghostwrote Shoe Dog, by Phil Knight, which was also great.
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If you liked this book, why did you like it?
Shawn This book has an appeal sort of like that of the Seinfeld sitcom; it's really just a typical life story, but it's so well written that it becomes high…moreThis book has an appeal sort of like that of the Seinfeld sitcom; it's really just a typical life story, but it's so well written that it becomes highly entertaining. It also unveils many important themes that are prevalent in American society. (less)
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