Assholes: A Theory

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by Aaron James

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Does the book tell you how to manage assholes? Not just walk away from them.. cuz what if you live the asshole and theyre not going away either?
Pam Susi It describes general approaches - resistance or resignation and more or less how to choose your battles. Generally speaking, the author says assholes …moreIt describes general approaches - resistance or resignation and more or less how to choose your battles. Generally speaking, the author says assholes don't often change their behavior, so it's frustrating and futile to expect otherwise regardless of our response. At the same time, it's important at times to not allow them to treat you with disrespect (mostly to preserve your own self respect regardless how it impacts their behavior or attitudes). But in the end, an asshole is an asshole is an.... so don't take it personally.(less)
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I am generally regarded by most people to be an A-hole. Does this book offer in insight on how to tame the A-hole within?
Judy Webb This is not a self-help book but it certainly will provide insight. The fact that you recognize and even possibly accept this description of yourself …moreThis is not a self-help book but it certainly will provide insight. The fact that you recognize and even possibly accept this description of yourself is hopeful. Self awareness is critical to growth and maturity. When this A-hole behaviour is no longer beneficial to you, perhaps you will be motivated to change ...definitely seek help from a counsellor and keep reading. Good luck.(less)
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