A New Year's thought...

posted by Neil Gaiman

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I'm in Australia. It's New Years Eve here already and the world is burning. Or at least, parts of Australia are.
I ought to be in Woodford, at the Festival. I'm not. I'm in Melbourne, convalescing from flu and bronchitis. The last time I got sick like this was three years ago, landing in Queensland, on my way to the Woodford Festival. Which I also missed, because I was ill. I'm starting to suspect it's actually long haul plane flights I'm not good at.
I've written so many New Year's wishes here...
(This is a link to a New Year's Post from the last time I was sick in Australia, where I collected them all together: http://journal.neilgaiman.com/2016/12/another-year.html.)
I think today I'll put something else up instead. Here in Australia bush fires are forcing people into the sea, forcing towns to be evacuated. There's loss of life, human and animal. Loss of property, too.
Meanwhile, in the Northern Hemisphere, it's winter. And it's going to be a hard winter for a lot of people.
A month ago I wrote a poem.
This poem began with asking people on Twitter what ���warmth��� made them think of. Thousands of people replied. I was planning to write a story, but a poem felt a better way of including all the different thoughts and points of view and memories.
And I read their responses, and then wrote this:

What You Need to be Warm.
A baked potato of a winter's night to wrap your hands around or burn your mouth.A blanket knitted by your mother's cunning fingers. Or your grandmother's.A smile, a touch, trust, as you walk in from the snowor return to it, the tips of your ears pricked pink and frozen.
The tink tink tink of iron radiators waking in an old house.To surface from dreams in a bed, burrowed beneath blankets and comforters,the change of state from cold to warm is all that matters, and you thinkjust one more minute snuggled here before you face the chill. Just one.
Places we slept as children: they warm us in the memory.We travel to an inside from the outside. To the orange flames of the fireplace or the wood burning in the stove. Breath-ice on the inside of windows, to be scratched off with a fingernail, melted with a whole hand.
Frost on the ground that stays in the shadows, waiting for us.Wear a scarf. Wear a coat. Wear a sweater. Wear socks. Wear thick gloves.An infant as she sleeps between us. A tumble of dogs,a kindle of cats and kittens. Come inside. You're safe now.
A kettle boiling at the stove. Your family or friends are there. They smile.Cocoa or chocolate, tea or coffee, soup or toddy, what you know you need. A heat exchange, they give it to you, you take the mugand start to thaw. While outside, for some of us, the journey began
as we walked away from our grandparents' houses away from the places we knew as children: changes of state and state and state, to stumble across a stony desert, or to brave the deep waters,while food and friends, home, a bed, even a blanket become just memories.
Sometimes it only takes a stranger, in a dark place,to hold out a badly-knitted scarf, to offer a kind word, to say we have the right to be here, to make us warm in the coldest season.
You have the right to be here.


I wrote it for UNHCR, who had it made into a scarf. We did it to raise awareness of the plight of Syrian refugees who are facing winter and need help. For UNHCR's Winter Emergency Appeal. There's a website: https://www.unhcr.org/belowzero/  Go and look.
It's a warm scarf, too.


And I hope in the year to come you won't burn. And I hope you won't freeze. I hope you and your family will be safe, and walk freely in the world and that the place you live, if you have one, will  be there when you get back. I hope that, for all of us, in the year ahead, kindness will prevail and that gentleness and humanity and forgiveness will be there for us if and when we need them.

And may your New Year be happy, and may you be happy in it.

I hope you make something in the year to come you've always dreamed of making, and didn't know if you could or not. But I bet you can. And I'm sure you will.

Labels:  Refugees, A scarf, A Poem, UNHCR, Happy New Year

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Published on December 31, 2019 05:37
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message 1: by N.K. (new)

N.K. Aning nice one


message 2: by Adam (new)

Adam Berk As the Earth's climate grows less hospitable so too will people, governments and institutions, except for those with the wisdom to rise above their fearful reactions. Keep crankin' out the enlightenment, Neil. We need it now more than ever!


message 3: by Lynne (new)

Lynne Thompson The scarf/shawl is beautiful. Get well soon, Beautiful Author.


message 4: by Doug (new)

Doug Thank you Neil!


message 5: by Anne-Mette (new)

Anne-Mette Brandt 🙏What a warm and wonderful gesture. Happy new year and get well soon 🤒🤧 best wishes 💫


message 6: by [deleted user] (new)

"I hope that, for all of us, in the year ahead, kindness will prevail and that gentleness and humanity and forgiveness will be there for us if and when we need them."

A beautiful thought, Neil. It made me cry to feel that wanted.


message 7: by Jess (new)

Jess Get well soon, thank you for sharing these collective words and memories and feelings and hope. Warmth is something our Aussie neighbors could do with less of right now. Warmth is something refugees around the world could use more of. The warmth of empathy is within all of our capacity to give freely. Sending much love from the US.


message 8: by Helena (last edited Jan 04, 2020 12:41PM) (new)

Helena Silva Thank you, Neil for your warmth. I felt the cosiness of the blanket.


message 9: by Allison (new)

Allison Bayliss It’s a shame you missed Woodford. It’s such a magical event. Happy New Years to you


message 10: by Linda (new)

Linda McCutcheon Even sick you are a genius wordsmith. Bless you and I hope you are feeling better!


message 11: by Jane (new)

Jane Schmidt I'm sorry you had such a rough start of the new year. May the rest of the year be full of health and happiness.


message 12: by Angelo (new)

Angelo RAZA Thanks mate


message 13: by Nc23_11 (new)

Nc23_11 It's real bad here, aye? Sometimes the sunlight that goes through my house is red, and the air quality is so bad. Over 500 million animals have died, koalas are now functionally extinct, and our prime minister thought it was a good idea to go on holiday during all of this was happening. What a fucking joke. The people refused to shake Scott Morrison's hand in Cobargo, and I'm glad they did. Scomo does not know the proper meaning of leadership.


message 14: by K.M. (new)

K.M. Mayville Nc23_11 wrote: "It's real bad here, aye? Sometimes the sunlight that goes through my house is red, and the air quality is so bad. Over 500 million animals have died, koalas are now functionally extinct, and our pr..."

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message 15: by Tiffany (new)

Tiffany Terry "I hope you make something in the year to come you've always dreamed of making, and didn't know if you could or not. But I bet you can. And I'm sure you will."

This post made me cry a bit, especially after I read why the poem was written and what the picture was about. I'm also at a place in my life where I'm just starting to work on a complete and total 180 career change. It's going to take some time (more than a year) but it's gonna be awesome. Your words really got to me and just reinforced why I want to make this change, to be happy with what I do with my life, and to have the confidence to learn and make new things. How I only discovered you as an author in the past few years is beyond me....


message 16: by Stella (new)

Stella Powerfull and beautifull.

Thanks for your wishes. I wish the same for you, but I'm adding something:
... and I hope in the year to come Love will guide and warm your thoughs, your words and your actions, and loving and warming hands will be there for you.


message 17: by C.A. (new)

C.A. Thank you for the GoodWill. The World needs it more than ever.


message 18: by Han (new)

Han Adcock Making a poem you can wear is such a cool thing to do, but making it to help very cold people to be warm is even cooler! Thank you for that lovely New Year’s wish, I hope the same things for you and yours. And I hope your lurgy has coughed itself up and flown away - being ill stinks.


message 19: by Steve (new)

Steve Swayne Glad to report Neil was healthy and well and in very fine form last night in Adelaide at a public talk about his work at the University of South Australia Hawke Centre.


message 20: by Shane (new)

Shane Ebbert That's really beautiful..thank you for sharing.

Apparently, 2020 has other ideas for humankind, but that really makes my day. <3


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