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(((hugs)))) Anyone with their own odd little duck understands. The good news is that when they hit an age where they can control their own destiny, it usually turns out that their destinies are unique--and that all the effort we put into helping them love themselves and their quirks is paid back tenfold.

I'm there with you!! All five if mine are neuro-atypical, but you've just described my oldest, if you replace science for maths. We homeschooled until last year when we waded into formal schooling for the first time, and it's fair to say it's been a bit of a mixed bag for everyone. He's 13 now (no, he still won't tie his own shoes), and on the second day of high school he whipped up a couple of pages of annotated illustrations and a phylogonetic tree (back to the last common ancestor, all branches, including families now extinct etc) in minutes, on the spot, from memory, when his english teacher told the class otters were pretty much the same as platypus (no, she seriously did). On the other hand he has failed every single exam/assignment because he has trouble focusing and applying when he can't see the point and he just doesnt care because the material is boring him to tears. Can he do the work? Unequivocally yes. Is he ever going to show that in standardised testing? No, probably not. Back to home ed later this year, for us. It's not for everyone either, but I'm thankful we have that option and it appeals to us (no doubt so is the school!! Lol). Good luck with your journeys!!
The school systems are not set up to handle these kids. I wish it were different and it wasn't so hard for them to navigate through the hell that is school, especially when you have a learning disability.