Should I change who I am for Him?

As a young woman first married I was so in love with my husband. There was nothing he would ask that I would not do. I waited on him, loved him and made sure he was comfortable at all times.

In retrospect, I realize my hand in spoiling and making him into the unkind man he turned out to be. My need to be a "good wife" caused harm in my marriage. One of my friends came to visit me and when she got married, she specifically told me that she refused to do certain things for her husband fearing...