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May 2, 2014

Three ways to medicate yourself with laughter

Laughing stimulates endorphin, it’s free, and it has no calories. So why aren’t we laughing all the time? Here are common obstacles to laughter and simple ways to overcome them.

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Published on May 02, 2014 20:44

April 4, 2014

Why You Need to Take a Break From Criticism

The flaws of the world are easy to see so it's hard to imagine you've created them with your mind. But if you take a break from criticizing, new information will shine in. So why does it feel like you're going through withdrawals when you stop criticizing?

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Published on April 04, 2014 09:23

Take a break from criticizing

The flaws of the world are easy to see so it's hard to imagine you've created them with your mind. But if you take a break from criticizing, new information will shine in. So why does it feel like you're going through withdrawals when you stop criticizing?

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Published on April 04, 2014 09:23

March 19, 2014

Awareness of Mortality Is Always on Your Mind

A big brain can terrorize itself with its own awareness of death. To stop that cortisol loop, imagine a stool resting on three legs: control, distraction, and building a legacy. The seat of the stool is your ability to sit with your cortisol for 20 minutes instead of fueling it.

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Published on March 19, 2014 14:26

Awareness of Death Makes Us Human

A big brain can terrorize itself with its own awareness of death. To stop that cortisol loop, imagine a stool resting on three legs: control, distraction, and building a legacy. The seat of the stool is your ability to sit with your cortisol for twenty minutes instead of fueling it.

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February 26, 2014

The Primate Brain Likes to Win, But Can't Always Have It

Winning feels good because it triggers dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin. These happy chemicals reward behaviors that promote survival in the state of nature. Watching others win triggers happy chemicals because of mirror neurons. Competition can be frustrating so it's important to understand why your inner mammal is drawn to it.

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Published on February 26, 2014 13:26

February 23, 2014

Why I Don’t Believe Reports of a Mental Health Crisis

Mental health services promise us a life without emotional pain. It's not surprising that so many people are lured by this promise. But emotional self-regulation is a learned skill. Services can help people build skills but they cannot deliver and ideal state that has never existed.

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Published on February 23, 2014 21:43

February 21, 2014

Don't Medicalize the Ups and Downs of Being Alive

Emotional distress is part of the human experience, but today's culture suggests that "the system" should relieve your distress for you. It's not surprising that so many people are expecting something they're not getting. That is not a crisis. People have been responsible for their emotional self-management since the beginning of time.

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Published on February 21, 2014 19:02

Don't medicalize the ups and downs of being alive

Emotional distress is part of the human experience, but today's culture suggests that "the system" should relieve your distress for you. It's not surprising that so many people are expecting something they're not getting. That is not a crisis. People have been responsible for their emotional self-management since the beginning of time.

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February 15, 2014

Don’t Go to Italy

It's hard to believe that an American girl could be convicted of "Satanic ritual murder" without evidence in our times. It's even harder to believe the public response to the Italian conviction is so limp. After reading the evidence, I am convinced this girl is innocent and needs our help.

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Published on February 15, 2014 16:09