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We Should Really Just Call It The Waiting Game

Hey everyone, You know how you sometimes feel confident in the moment and share something that most people would have kept quiet, and then, a few hours later, you’re filled with deep shame, regret, and a desire to take it back? I feel that way all the time when I write these newsletters. And I’m going to […]

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Either They’ll Take A Chance On You, Or You’ll Find Another Way

Here’s what I have learned: If they love your work or you check the “right” boxes, it won’t matter if you have no social media following or audience. They will shower you with deals and help you build that following. If they have a bias against you or don’t understand what you’re trying to do, […]

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Is This What Sanity Feels Like?

You know when you’re in the habit of doing something daily or near-daily and then you decide to take a few days off? Which is all well and good but then you return and you begin to wonder how you ever did it in the first place?  That’s been me with these emails. Took two days off, […]

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Ignoring All The Advice I Stupidly Paid To Receive

Do you sometimes feel like all you do is keep learning the same lesson over and over again?  I’m so bullish on being you, doing it your way, and finding fun and joy in your business, but then what do I do? I go join an entrepreneur group where people teach a paint-by-numbers style of […]

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When One Of Us Wins, We All Win

It’s sort of a bittersweet day for me because my program Write With Me, which runs every year from January to March, comes to an end today. The final day! We wrote 750,000+ words in total as a group this year, and I’ve personally written more than 76,000 words since January. I asked some of […]

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The Strength Of Your Conviction Comes Down To Your Failures

I was thinking of what to say today. It’s been a bit of a whirlwind of action around these parts in the last few days and my emotions have been up, down, and all over the place. It’s so easy to get swayed by all that’s happening around you sometimes, events that throw you from […]

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28 Months Of Consistent Indie Book Sales

I put the final touches on my book proposal this week (which I’ll be able to tell you about very soon, yay!) I asked Sam for the toughest critique he’d ever given anyone and boy, did he deliver. This means, of course, that I’m now back to editing my freelancing books, and because I’m nothing […]

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How Would You Show Up If Success Were A Given?

I’ve been experimenting with a mindset shift recently that’s been really interesting to play around with. It’s the idea that success is a given. Not something to work towards, not something to fight for, not something that needs to be earned. But something that is a natural consequence of the work that I do.  But […]

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The Only Thing You Ever Need A Mentor For

So I was procrastinating on a deadline (as you do) and scrolling through Facebook (as you do), when something caught my attention. It was a graphic with this message:  Everyone looks at the cost of a book, a course, or a coach. Nobody considers the cost of being in the same place a year from […]

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The Wrong Kind Of Growth Is A Trap

I’ve been saying for years that I want to have more fun in my business, that it’s pointless to be self-employed if you’re just going to repeat the same shitty patterns that you fell into when you were in a full-time job, and that if you feel imprisoned by your clients and your work, then […]

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