Some people mistakenly feel that once they commit to a relationship they have been granted permission to oversee and control every detail of their partner's existence.
There are many things that can make relationships work and many more that can make them completely unworkable. One of the things that many couples agree upon is the value of humor.
As hard as it may be to admit to yourself, if you are with someone who puts you down and makes you feel sick to your stomach when he or she chooses to upset you, that is abuse.
When tenderness is removed from a relationship, with it goes a sense of security. What takes its place is the reminder that our humanness will somehow evaporate in its absence.
Most of us have survived a bad relationship or two (a few more in my case). Unfortunately, there is someone who hurt me so badly that it nearly broke me.
Those of us who have families and businesses that we love need to remember, especially when things get interesting, that a guiding light can help get you through difficult times.