Isabella Rogge's Blog: The Redhead Writer, page 90
July 14, 2017
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“I lived in books more than I lived anywhere...
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I was...
I was wearing this outfit today to a grocery store when I made a baby smile. I was wearing this outfit today when I threw my head back and laughed, when I sang in the car with my family, when I filled it with yummy food to keep it healthy.
I was wearing this outfit today to a grocery store when I overheard a woman telling her young daughter who was pointing and laughing that I would get what’s coming to me. I was wearing this outfit today when a woman told a man that it was the wrong kind of attention and that I was asking for someone to get me. I was wearing this outfit today when the same man stared at my body longingly and then agreed with the woman that I was asking for an attack.
I was not wearing this outfit when I was raped. I was wearing a size XXL hoodie and a pair of my mom’s sweatpants, much to the shock of the friend I told after, who asked what she’d been taught to ask: “What were you wearing?”. I feel so terrible for the little girl whose mother was teaching her at the grocery store that she deserved to be assaulted if she dressed comfortably for the weather, which was climbing above 80 degrees, or for an injury, which called for a brace and a boot that doesn’t allow room for long pants, or for her body, because it’s hers and she can put on it what she damn well pleases. I feel terrible for the man who will look me up and down as though I was a 5 for $20 steak deal he might purchase and will immediately after speak to a presumable stranger about the violent fate I deserved. I feel terrible for the woman with fabulous hair who feels she can express herself but refuses to let me do the same.
Summer is coming up. It’s hot outside. I have an injured ankle, and a tight boot and brace to wear on one leg. I will not dress uncomfortably to protect complete strangers who are so offended by an expanse of skin that they console themselves by predicting my next rape.
Stop perpetuating slut-shaming and thus perpetuating a culture of excused rape. Stop perpetuating slut-shaming and thus perpetuating a culture of insecurity, inherent shame, and body image distortion which can cause an innumerable amount of incredibly dark issues nearly impossible to overcome.
My body is mine, and I love it. It is the house I live in, with which I will someday create a family, with which I run and dance and hold the strong lungs I use to sing. I refuse to be ashamed of it for any reason, especially the reason being that this culture which glorifies sex and punishes those who have it, which encourages being sexy and then preaches that sexy girls ask for attack, has taught its people that my stomach is a sin.
Please think twice this summer before you choose to say anything at all to or about anyone who wears something they choose to wear. Please think twice before you say that a girl deserves to be raped for wearing shorts. Please try and catch yourself when you think things like that. Please be courteous and gentle and loving, and spend your effort tackling real problems. My stomach and legs are not a real problem.
This is not a post that I can just scroll by.
No matter what you wear; covered or not. It happens and “the clothes you were wearing” is a fucking excuse to make it your fault.
spacelesbians:honestly if I was walking through the forest and saw hozier there i wouldn’t even...
honestly if I was walking through the forest and saw hozier there i wouldn’t even question it,, it’s where he belongs
ruledbyvillains:
Harry Potter aesthetic: House Ravenclaw
“Wit...
Harry Potter aesthetic: House Ravenclaw
“Wit beyond measure is man’s greatest treasure.”
clockworkbibliophile:
there was a giant patch of wild sunflowers...
there was a giant patch of wild sunflowers growing along the side of the highway, so naturally I had to stop for a pic
Come talk to me about what you're currently reading
Nothing right now BUT I ordered The Peal Thief by elizabeth wein and it should be getting here tomorrow and that fact that I didn’t know my all-time favorite author released another book until today is sad
Favourite authors releasing new books is always !!!!!! I hope it’s good when you get it!! What else have they written ??
Code Name Verity is her big one, which is my fav. There’s also Rose Under Fire and Black Dove, White Raven. It’s historical fiction, and her writing style is beautiful
I’ve been meaning to get code name verity!!!!
Ahh it’s sooo good. If you can get through all the dense, factual descriptions about airplanes hahaha. It’s just. Friendship and heartbreak and tears
