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Losers are the pillars to success???

Losers are the Pillars to Success??
Since your first defeat you will find a very common sentence used mostly by the well wishers in your life….. to assure that you don’t give up in life.
But again this sentence has mostly been considered as one given for condolence…. But is it actually so??Let’s analyze it through an example!!
=> When a person gets defeated in life, he finds himself deep down, let’s say till the Mantle (the second layer of earth) all broken covered with hard words of society leaving behind his eyes damp (the way layer is, mixture of solid and liquid both). Feeling as nothing is left for him in this world. He is left behind with two options either to end up or begin. To begin his life and his journey.He then starts his journey for that Mantle layer.
There’s another saying “huge/strong buildings need deeper foundations”
Connecting the same in our example I don’t think any building (success pillar) could go deeper than that (for Core is very high in Temperature).
And….
This makes him create a wonder, a wonder which turns to fantasy for world.Friends, getting defeat simply means you worked or say you acted.


In fact Defeat Knocks when you EXPECT it to…. And it enters or say you are defeated when you ACCEPT it.

PAIN!!!????

“How can ‘he’ (being a guy I opted HE in general sense) take such a big step?
“He isn’t the only one suffering? There are people in darker side yet living happily!
Strange, isn’t it? Are we sharing same souls? I know the question is strange yet with an obvious answer, No!! If each one of us has different soul then why can’t the feelings and intensity be different?
Wait!! I guess it is getting messed up; I’ll give you an Example.
Different metals/ objects absorb heat or say react to fire in different way. So will that be right if we taunt them over this that they call themselves tough and melt so easily or they are so fragile yet need lot of temperature to melt. I don’t think so!!
A cat fell from second floor, nothing happened she is fine but a lion fell and broke his spinal/fractured legs. So are we supposed to say that cat is tougher then Lion or can we blame Lion for getting hurt in spite of being blessed with such a great physique and powers?
No!!! That’s their body structure.
Another Example on same incident shifting Lion and taking two cats, but one of them got severely Injured. Reason!! The way she fell made those injuries possible.
So taking these two examples in Lab we have all rights to conclude that Impact of pain depends upon; 1                   *Time/way             *Victim


It isn’t written anywhere that a millionaire or a bodybuilder are supposed be strong from heart. Pain changes its Impact with time. Suppose today I won a million Rs Lottery a small accident wont bother me but at the same time if the accident happens on a day when I lost my job. The Impact of that will be very Harsh and I will at once say…. LIFE STINKS!!! MY DESTINY SUCKS!!!In the same way soul/heart, they are different in every body and this is why they say you never find a perfect match ;) and with these changes the Impact as well changes. A last Example defining Pain:·                A millionaire was sad for he wished to have Dinner in his favorite 7 star but failed to as it was close or there was sec 144 in City.·                A middle class guy was sad for he wanted to have Pizza but failed to as his pocket wasn’t permitting. &·          A poor guy was sad ‘coz he wasn’t getting chapattis.



These incidents never allows you to say there reasons for being sad are not genuine. They are 100 percent true being at their place which no one else will understand for we all have different chips (Hearts/souls) installed which are living and will have to live on their same processor.



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We are just Living not LIVING!!

Life they say is meant to live.
How!!??
Answer comes... the way it is written somewhere by someone for in some or the other way that someone found that something useful in some area.

Sounds interesting... and most important... MUDDLED!!!

That's the truth today the future of India (us) are forced and to some extent are happy to follow the past. We at times blindly believe something just because it’s written..... !!!

but is it necessary that if one thing helped some other person it will help you?? I guess in this way we are assuming that we are like that same person. The person whose great stories we heard. I'm not being offensive here to anyone in particular... all i want to say is.. We all are blessed with at least a quality which makes us different from others.... and if we are different why are we following those old patterns and paths.

The great people living or alive.. Which people are following were Path makers not followers. Why it happens that we even follow a particular thing without even knowing the exact reason behind.
Its like reading a sentence completely without understanding meaning of any word in between and expecting by end that you understand it all.

And that’s what exactly we are doing.
Have you ever thought once what on Earth makes you believe on a third person or the path made by him more that you and your path. Its your deficit in trust of you over yourself and with this state you expect the WORLD to trust you. To walk over your path someday.

Give it a thought friends, You are expecting yourself to win Mr./ Ms. India tag when you believe that you are not worth it. This will never give you victory for you’ll lose all your confidence.
All in all I would say Believe yourself the most, trust your path. Rest can just tell fables and take you to a fairy land but it’s you who can create your path in the best possible way.
Believe yourself Love yourself…. Never ever follow anything blindly…. For you are A UNIQUE creation blessed and adored with the best in world.

Don’t just live life… LIVE LIFE!!!!! For its your personal property. 


Mayank Sharma AKA Mak Vashi
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