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February 13, 2015

"Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate passion and love and spirit-crushing romantic obligation...."

“Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate passion and love and spirit-crushing romantic obligation. Though no one has pinpointed the exact origin of the holiday, one good place to start is ancient Rome, where men hit on women by, well, hitting them. From February 13 to 15, the Romans celebrated the feast of Lupercalia. The men sacrificed a goat and a dog, then whipped women with the hides of the animals they had just slain. Young women would actually line up for the men to hit them because they believed it would make them fertile. It’s like the time I let this dude I was dating punch me in the back of the head while his penis was in my butthole because I believed it would make him — um, that analogy might not actually work so let me stop there, but you get what I’m saying.”

- How to Survive Valentine’s Day if You’re Single by Samantha Irby
(via papermagazine)
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January 15, 2015

Notes from January 11

From an open google doc: 



I’ve given up hope that anything is worthwhile ha. Yesterday I sat down with Rachel at various places — her bed, her “too preppy” couch (we found a cream throw to cover it), cowered below shelves of tapestries at “the tapestry store,” her kitchen table eating spaghetti by candle light with Jake, on a stoop to smoke a cigarette, a Spanish restaurant where I ate nothing — to talk about how much we hated everything. We hated media, the Internet, the commodification of experience through writing, Lena Dunham, memoirs written by women (the cost of them, the disincentivising of a life free of self-destruction and self-objectification), liberal feminism, gay men who exercise their male privilege. Later, I couldn’t explain why I took a book off her shelf (written by a mutual friend) and felt angry at the actions which forced this book into being. Namely, the author’s belief in the necessity of her words. I envied that, I guess. But I also found it shameful. It felt good to be hater. I didn’t care if I was being terrible or unreasonable. 


Rion said that he hates the internet because there’s “too much negativity.” I think I hate the internet for different reasons. Oh well. 


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Published on January 15, 2015 17:28

"If a writer falls in love with you, you can never die."

“If a writer falls in love with you, you can never die.”

- Drake (via papermagazine)
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January 14, 2015

"I’m not sure if you know, but everyone has the ability to get their hands on pot right now whether..."

“I’m not sure if you know, but everyone has the ability to get their hands on pot right now whether its legal or not. I just feel if you legalize this drug it will cut out certain things like the overcrowding of prisons and putting [criminal charges] on our record that will prevent us from getting loans, jobs and homes. This whole thing around recreational weed is not making any sense to me.”

- Watch 2 Chainz calmly crush Nancy Grace in a debate about pot legalization. (via papermagazine)
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January 5, 2015

"When it comes to “revolution” as an idea/ideology/politic, two questions that spring to mind..."

When it comes to “revolution” as an idea/ideology/politic, two questions that spring to mind are:



1. Why the fuck not?



2. What the fuck else would you be doing in your spare time?



Those who call communism, socialism, anarchism and other “revolutionary” ideologies fatally idealistic or hopelessly romantic could perhaps consider the fatal idealism and hopeless romanticism of capitalism, “the republic,” democracy, plutocracy, and pretty much all human ideology, period. The “revolutionary” or “communist” or “socialist” or “anarchistic” ideas are all gestural cosmic splinters of a larger, extra-linguistic idea. Words are important and useful but u should take some time, maybe 30 minutes to an hour per day, to sit in silent meditation. U had a lot of sex last year, pick the sexual partner u liked best and go deep with them emotionally.



- Kool A.D. forecasts revolution for Pisces in this month’s horoscopes. (via papermagazine)
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Published on January 05, 2015 10:08