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Keeping It Under Lock and Key – Your Guide to Using Handcuffs #BDSM #FiftyShades of Grey Style

Original Article by Christina Mandara writing for Marquis Magazine

Your Guide To Using Handcuffs

Handcuffs are one of the easiest ways to restrain someone. They’re a great time-saver compared to nearly all other restraints and a lot less complicated than rope. There are no difficult knots to learn and they can be fastened and released in a matter of seconds.

There is something beautifully sexy about a partner who has their hands cuffed. They’ve suddenly surrendered all control and are utterl...

The company that pays you $36,000 / £28,000 A Year To Test Sex Toys #Sex #relationships

By Rachel Moss of the Huffington Post

A sex toy brand is looking for a new employee to try out its products – and get paid for it.

LoveWoo is currently advertising for the role of “sex toy reviewer”, who’ll be responsible for writing reviews on “sex toys, lingerie, games and much more”.

The successful applicant will be paid a rather respectable salary of £28,000 for their troubles and will get to work from home two days a week (for obvious reasons). The remaining three will be in a London-ba...

Christina’s Favourite Item Of Fetish Wear (So Far This Week…) #Fetishwear #BDSM

Aren’t they lovely? Some red latex gloves featured in the Velvet Caress chapter I was writing this week. Along with lots more latex. Yum.

Apologies but I can’t seem to find where this photo originated other than pinterest, but I am sure that latex gloves can’t be too hard to find on the internet. Hang on, I’ll have a quick search

#SatSpanks – Naked and Kneeling #BDSM

Hello Spankos and welcome to another week of spankingly good naughtiness. Sparks will shortly find itself with a release date in the next two three or weeks, so stayed tuned. For now… here’s a little taster…

Sparks

My legs had long since gone numb underneath me. Goosebumps covered me from head to toe, and my naked body protested vehemently against the cold. I ignored it. I also ignored my stomach, which had begun rumbling in earnest. Typical. I’d barely eaten a thing all week, and now, when...

#Friday #Funny Simon’s Cat in BED HEAD. Not everyday can be a BDSM day ;)

I love Simon’s cat. I want one just like him

Arousal – Do Aftershaves and Perfumes turn us on? #Sex #Relationships

So it’s official. Scent isn’t sensible. Go eau natural every time. Just not too eau natural, if you know what I mean

#MidWeekTease – Are You Going To Be A Good Boy For Me? #BDSM #FemDom

Hello Teasers! It’s that time of the week where I share another little snippet from my WIP ‘The Velvet Caress,’ and Mark’s about to have a hard time of things. Don’t all cry at once

Wax Play – It’s HOT! #BDSM #Edgeplay

Original Article by Christina Mandara writing for Marquis Magazine

It’s HOT!

So what exactly is wax play? Well, it’s where you tie your partner down (she doesn’t have to be tied down – but it’s more fun that way) and drip hot wax all over her body. It’s an exciting form of BDSM edge play, because the submissive never knows where the next drop is heading, and if you add a blindfold into the mix, it becomes even more delicious. Those hot little drops of wax can have a lot of fun dribbling over...

The Orgasm Gap – Are Women REALLY More Difficult To Please Than Men? #sex #relationships

By Nicki Lisa Cole, Ph.D. writing for thoughtco.com.

Gender disparities abound in our society. The gender pay gap, for starters, shows that the labor of men is valued more than that of women. Women hold less than 20 percent of congressional seats in the U.S., which makes for a great disparity in political representation. Women are considerably underrepresented as writers and directors of film and television, and as artists in our nation’s museums. They are also more likely than men to live i...

Christina’s Favorite Item Of Fetish Wear (So Far This Week…) #BDSM #Fetish Wear

Isn’t that a cheeky little number? A spanking skirt with a difference