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May 16, 2019

A Time of Change

Hello dear readers,
Spring is a season where change often happens and Tim and I have two developments we wanted to let you in on. This post will be more of a personal update from us and less of the reflective type of article we usually post.

Pink and white spring bouquet of roses, orchid, tulips, and hydrangeas set against dark background. New Look

Our website has a fresh look! We thought it was time for an update and we’ve been working behind the scenes to make it happen. We’re still refining things but we’re happy to let you see the changes we’ve made so far.

My Dad’s Passing

Of greater...

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Published on May 16, 2019 21:13

April 3, 2019

In Memory of Ben Lam – March 24, 1949 – March 19, 2019

Below is the text for the eulogy given at my dad’s Celebration of Life on March 24, 2019. To watch a video recording of the event, click here.

Display of framed photo of Ben Lam beside a table with a white tablecloth. On the table is a large arrangement of flowers, a lit candle, and a hand-knit blanket.

My dad had the biggest thumbs of anyone I’ve met. As a child, I would put my scrawny little pinky next to his thumb and guess how many of my fingers could fit in his thumb. When we were with friends, sometimes I would show off my dad’s thumbs because I thought they were so impressive.

Benjamin Hing Yat Lam was born in a thriving port town then known a...

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Published on April 03, 2019 17:18

In Memory of Ben Lam – March 24, 1949 – March 19, 2019

Below is the text for the eulogy given at my dad’s Celebration of Life on March 24, 2019. To watch a video recording of the event, click here.

Display of framed photo of Ben Lam beside a table with a white tablecloth. On the table is a large arrangement of flowers, a lit candle, and a hand-knit blanket.

My dad had the biggest thumbs of anyone I’ve met. As a child, I would put my scrawny little pinky next to his thumb and guess how many of my fingers could fit in his thumb. When we were with friends, sometimes I would show off my dad’s thumbs because I thought they were so impressive.

Benjamin Hing Yat Lam was born in a thriving port town then known...

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Published on April 03, 2019 16:24

March 1, 2019

Lent Photo-a-Day 2019

Traditionally, the season of Lent is the 40 days between Ash Wednesday and Holy Saturday (not including Sundays). It is a season for fasting and repentance, a season of soul-examination drawing from Jesus’ experience in the wilderness. This year, Lent starts on Wednesday, March 6 and lasts until Saturday, April 20.

For the past three years, I have engaged in a photo-a-day practice during the season of Lent to focus and deepen my attention to Christ in my daily life. Last year was my first y...

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Published on March 01, 2019 22:09

Lent Photo-a-Day 2019

Traditionally, the season of Lent is the 40 days between Ash Wednesday and Holy Saturday (not including Sundays). It is a season for fasting and repentance, a season of soul-examination drawing from Jesus’ experience in the wilderness. This year, Lent starts on Wednesday, March 6 and lasts until Saturday, April 20.

For the past three years, I have engaged in a photo-a-day practice during the season of Lent to focus and deepen my attention to Christ in my daily life. Last year was my first...

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Published on March 01, 2019 16:22

February 19, 2019

Our Word for 2019: Enough

Back in January, Tim and I did our annual Blue Day – a day to review our direction, plan, and dream for this coming year (we explain this idea more in our ebook “Fight With Me“). We also chose a theme word to focus on for the year. For 2019, our word is Enough.

For me, Enough will be lived out in several ways this year:

I have enough. This will be a year of trusting that God will provide us the finances we need. This will also be a year of using what I already have. When I look around my hom...
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Published on February 19, 2019 21:18

Our Word for 2019: Enough

Back in January, Tim and I did our annual Blue Day – a day to review our direction, plan, and dream for this coming year (we explain this idea more in our ebook “Fight With Me“). We also chose a theme word to focus on for the year. For 2019, our word is Enough.

For me, Enough will be lived out in several ways this year:

I have enough. This will be a year of trusting that God will provide us the finances we need. This will also be a year of using what I already have. When I look around my...
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Published on February 19, 2019 16:21

December 31, 2018

The Two Best Family Practices We Initiated This Year

When I think about what we did as a family in 2018, two practices stand out in as particularly life-giving and beneficial to each of us. These were both spiritual exercises that we incorporated into our daily rhythms over this past year and were only possible because our kids are now at an age where they could both participate. The first was what we call Good Parts/Hard Parts. The second was what we call the Quiet Minute.

Good Parts/Hard Parts

Toward the beginning of the year, I read, “...

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Published on December 31, 2018 16:19

The Two Best Family Practices We Initiated This Year

When I think about what we did as a family in 2018, two practices stand out in as particularly life-giving and beneficial to each of us. These were both spiritual exercises that we incorporated into our daily rhythms over this past year and were only possible because our kids are now at an age where they could both participate. The first was what we call Good Parts/Hard Parts. The second was what we call the Quiet Minute.

Good Parts/Hard Parts

Toward the beginning of the year, I read, “Slee...

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Published on December 31, 2018 05:00

November 5, 2018

Advent Photo-A-Day 2018

Advent is a season observed by many Christians as a time of preparation and expectant waiting for the celebration of Jesus’ birth. The term comes from the Latin word adventus, which means “coming.” Many people like to go through a set of readings during Advent. For me, having one word to contemplate throughout the day and looking for an image to capture that word allows me to practice Advent in a simple, accessible, and integrated way that flows with the rhythms of my life.

The practice of c...

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Published on November 05, 2018 21:27