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March 28, 2013
Redefining the Law of Attraction and Monogamy
Having a relationship without some side attraction every once in a while is like dating a garden hose. To think you’ll be with one person for the rest of your life and not develop an attraction with another person is a lie they perpetuate in the text book you receive when you enroll in Falling in Love School at Monogamy University.
Redefining the Law of Attraction and Monogamy
Having a relationship without some side attraction every once in a while is like dating a garden hose. To think you’ll be with one person for the rest of your life and not develop an attraction with another person is a lie they perpetuate in the text book you receive when you enroll in Falling in Love School at Monogamy University.
March 7, 2013
5 Essential Steps to Taking an Online Dating Sabbatical
“I don’t go out on dates, I go out on relationships.” Woody Allen says. Well, last week I quit dating so I wouldn’t have to go out on any more relationships and it feels permanent, which means it feels less like a sabbatical and more like an allergy. My friend who is allergic to bread cries every time he eats a sandwich. My recent reaction to dating is similar.
5 Essential Steps to Taking an Online Dating Sabbatical
“I don’t go out on dates, I go out on relationships.” Woody Allen says. Well, last week I quit dating so I wouldn’t have to go out on any more relationships and it feels permanent, which means it feels less like a sabbatical and more like an allergy. My friend who is allergic to bread cries every time he eats a sandwich. My recent reaction to dating is similar.
February 28, 2013
Starting Over with a New Life and New Vision
As I’ve come to understand the vision board and my creative process, I’ve come to understand how community intrinsically builds change: My biggest and most important ideas have come when I’m in the midst of others - not in isolation. I may paint in my studio, play the piano in my practice room or write alone at my lap top, but my spark always comes from another place.
February 27, 2013
Starting Over with a New Life and New Vision
As I’ve come to understand the vision board and my creative process, I’ve come to understand how community intrinsically builds change: My biggest and most important ideas have come when I’m in the midst of others - not in isolation. I may paint in my studio, play the piano in my practice room or write alone at my lap top, but my spark always comes from another place.
February 14, 2013
Cupids Kick: A Valentine's Day Gift of Self Love
And that little eleven word email she sent me - a message no bigger than a tweet - well it’s helped me see how I’m no longer stuck in-between with a woman that never really wanted to be with me. After my inner Francisco-Goya-Woody-Allen settled down I actually saw that sometimes things fall apart sometimes so better things can fall together.
Cupids Kick: A Valentine's Day Gift of Self Love
And that little eleven word email she sent me - a message no bigger than a tweet - well it’s helped me see how I’m no longer stuck in-between with a woman that never really wanted to be with me. After my inner Francisco-Goya-Woody-Allen settled down I actually saw that sometimes things fall apart sometimes so better things can fall together.
December 31, 2012
The New Narrative: Man vs Storytelling
While I watch it, I feel like a voyeur, a friend, an audience member, and a Peeping Tom at the same time. I get to feel ashamed and aroused and slightly uncomfortable, which is what the new narrative is all about. Maybe it’s just that my vision has shifted slightly now that I’m a Costco celebrity. Maybe, every stack of boxes will look like a gorgeous corrugated breast now.
The New Narrative: Man vs Storytelling
While I watch it, I feel like a voyeur, a friend, an audience member, and a Peeping Tom at the same time. I get to feel ashamed and aroused and slightly uncomfortable, which is what the new narrative is all about. Maybe it’s just that my vision has shifted slightly now that I’m a Costco celebrity. Maybe, every stack of boxes will look like a gorgeous corrugated breast now.
